23 ADVICE FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

23 ADVICE FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her. 2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go. 3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office. 4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face. 5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent. 6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman. 7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again. 8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely. 9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other. 10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along. 11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much. 12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too. 13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches. 14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man? 15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part. 16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige. 17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag. 18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother. 19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays. 20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us. 21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours. 22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too. 23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.

Arsenal Vs Man Utd

Danny Welbeck wrote his name in to Arsenal folklore by scoring the winner on his first return to Old Trafford, sending the Gunners through to the semifinals of the FA Cup with a 2-1 win. Arsene Wenger's team took the lead through Nacho Monreal's composed strike, but swiftly surrendered an equaliser when Wayne Rooney nodded home Angel Di Maria's cross. However, Welbeck pounced on a loose Antonio Valencia back-pass to score the winning goal. United's attempts to launch a comeback were hindered by the dismissal of Di Maria, who was sent off after, having just been booked for diving, he received a second yellow card for tugging at the referee's shirt. The night might have got even better for Arsenal, but David de Gea produced two world-class saves to keep the Gunners' tally at two. No matter. There is something particularly poignant about Welbeck nicking the winner on his return to United. Arsenal fans will revel in the club's first victory at Old Trafford since 2006. Player Ratings (1-10; 10=best. Players introduced after 70 minutes get no rating): GK Wojciech Szczesny, 6 -- Arsenal's cup goalkeeper looked a little nervy on his return to the side, without being enormously tested. This was not a performance to put David Ospina under significant pressure. DF Hector Bellerin, 6 -- Although his inexperience showed when he picked up an early booking for a needless foul on Ashley Young, Bellerin recovered to put in a largely assured display before being replaced by Calum Chambers. DF Per Mertesacker, 8 -- The giant German has responded remarkably well to being left out of the team against Everton. He was excellent against United, helping Arsenal to cope with the frequent long balls toward Marouane Fellaini. DF Laurent Koscielny, 7 -- Although the Frenchman will be disappointed to have lost Wayne Rooney for United's first-half equaliser, he played a crucial role in helping Arsenal see out the victory. DF Nacho Monreal, 8 -- Made his most tangible impact on the game with his goal, which he took surprisingly well given that he previously had just one other strike to his name in English football. However, it's worth noting that he was superb defensively too -- at present, Monreal looks a far safer option than the more cavalier Kieran Gibbs. MF Francis Coquelin, 8 -- Playing through the pain of a broken nose, Coquelin provided Arsenal with an invaluable shield in front of the defence. Coquelin showed brains as well as brawn. He knew he couldn't beat Fellaini to the first ball but made sure he was positioned intelligently to pick off the knockdowns. MF Santi Cazorla, 8 -- The quick feet of Cazorla allowed Arsenal to relieve the pressure and escape on the counter-attack on several occasions. There were also a couple of surprisingly sharp tackles from the diminutive playmaker. MF Mesut Ozil, 7 -- Arsenal's record signing was quiet in the first half but orchestrated several of their best attacks in the second. At times he seemed a little reluctant to shoot. Had he been more ruthless, the Gunners may have won by a greater margin. FW Alex Oxlade-Chamberlain, 7 -- Created the goal with an outstanding bit of skill, dribbling past three players before picking out a pass for Monreal. Unfortunately, a hamstring injury ended his night early. FW Alexis Sanchez, 7 -- Provided Arsenal with a constant outlet on the break and was a menace inside the penalty area. Arsenal's top scorer would have added to his tally but for a stunning save from De Gea. FW Danny Welbeck, 7 -- In the first half, Welbeck's first touch was off and he struggled to make an impact on the game. However, he worked tirelessly and grew in to the match as it went on. The goal was just reward for his selfless play and should provide a tremendous boost to his confidence. Arsenal fans will also have been delighted to see him celebrate his goal rather than opt for a muted display. Substitutes MF Aaron Ramsey, 7 -- Came on for Oxlade-Chamberlain and added characteristic energy to the proceedings. DF Calum Chambers, 6 -- Replaced Bellerin and helped Arsenal through an intense final 20 minutes. FW Olivier Giroud, NR -- Introduced as a replacement for Welbeck, Giroud made little impact.